MODS PLZ DELETE

[Dev]

Ok, no, this HAS to stop.

I have been seeing so many problems between some of out members, and I dont like it. I HATE seeing people fighting. When I first started out on this forum, everyone was very kind. But now? Now it has formed into something like a war. People are going on and on about "Oh no, trust, I have changed"..."I didn't steal them"

I hate how people lie. When people lie, it turns people against eachother, and then, it just goes around to the other members. I am getting sick of this constant bickering between people say mean stuff about others.

Before when I joined, everyone was very kind about the rules for the adoptions. Now, on some peoples adoptions it says: ' If I dont like you, you dont get any of these petz". Ya know what? Who cares if you dont like them. They are probably an outstanding owner, but they just got off to a bad start with you.

I am getting really tired of seeing people spamming threads saying stuff mean like "I dont want to adopt from you anymore" I am not trying to point fingers at anyone, but, a bunch of people on here have been doing that lately. This forum has become a battle feild between the trustful/nice/kind members and the non-trustworthy/mean members.

I am sick of hearing people complain about people and what they are doing. People should just tell the mods, and let it go to that, let the mods fix it, and dont show it to the public so that they will go against them. I guess that some people just feel the need to show that someone should not be trusted as a good and worthy member.

All of this is not directed towards one person, but to everyone. Almost everyone has been doing all of this, and has been making other members feel bad and leave this forum. When I joined everyone was friends, and everyone was trust worthy. Now, it is hard to stay here and read the fights going on. I am just sick and tired of hearing everyone complain about a certain memvber.

This seriously needs to stop. If it doesn't then I am sorry but I might be considering leaveing this forum. I come to this forum to get away from real life when I am stressed out. Now, coming onto this forum makes me even more stressed out, and I dont know if I would like to come back from a stressful day, just to get some more stress from reading everyone comments about other members. It is really starting to bug me.

I am only 11, but I know that the older people on this forum are a lot more mature than they are acting. Older people tend to be WAY more mature then younger people. That is what I dont understand. Most of the people on this forum are older then 13. I KNOW that you guys can be mature then this! You guys really have to start being so immature and start acting more responsible instead of complaining to others!

I am sorry if this is sounding harsh to some members, but this is the way that I feel, and I feel that I need to tell everyone. I am serious when I say that I might be considering leaving this forum if all of this doesn't start to do away.

Thanks for reading this....and if you have any comments, go ahead and post them.

Wowza that's long XD

[talim]

I'm sorry Dev. I think I have hurt you alot. But, for some reason, Cara pmed me and emailed me saying so sorry, and that she really has liked me for a long time. I am worried about her, but then again conserned. Can someone talk to her about this?

[Dev]

Like I said up there Sierra that whole thing is not directed to one member.

[talim]

I know it isn't. I just have been quite a burdon. So, I am not liing, I am going on a record too.

[Pixie]

So basically by bringing this up, you're doing exactly what you hate, and whining about the problems. Look, life is life. some people get along, others dont. some people follow the rules, others dont. some are affected by this, other arent. However, in every forum and board (and in life) you will encounter people who upset you, people who dont get along, and people who dont follow rules. you need to either learn to ignore it, or live in a cave somewhere.

[Rach]

You really think everyones gonna get on and be a big happy APKC family here?
Obviously theres going to be arguements, people not liking each other...and by saying your sick of it, isn't going to suddenly make everyone love each other again.

If you leave the forum, trust me, you'll come back.

I know, I did. =(

[CRA~*]

Eh?
Wasn't there a thread already like this?

[Jena]

There absolutely was already thread like this.

And making another one isn't going to help.

In fact, it'll probably start up some other fight.

[Rach]

Cara;
is your avatar from Mean Girls?

[CRA~*]

Dunno. Haven't watched it.
But a couple of people have said it is.

[Manatee]

talim said:

I'm sorry Dev. I think I have hurt you alot. But, for some reason, Cara pmed me and emailed me saying so sorry, and that she really has liked me for a long time. I am worried about her, but then again conserned. Can someone talk to her about this?

Oh you! Don't you get started by pointing your finger at Cara!

hanna said:

So basically by bringing this up, you're doing exactly what you hate, and whining about the problems. Look, life is life. some people get along, others dont. some people follow the rules, others dont. some are affected by this, other arent. However, in every forum and board (and in life) you will encounter people who upset you, people who dont get along, and people who dont follow rules. you need to either learn to ignore it, or live in a cave somewhere.

I totally agree with Pixie. Dev, I'm not trying to be mean or anything, but these threads don't get anybody anywhere. It just makes people accuse others all the more.

[wolfdemon]

Dev, we are all aware there are some problems here. We don't need to be reminded over and over again, kay?

[emily]

ranch said:

If you leave the forum, trust me, you'll come back.

I know, I did. =(

Haha, me too.

But, yes, getting back on topic, just by making this, you're going to do what you've been trying to stop. The APKC isn't a little insane world that you can come to and hope that everything's going to be perfect -- it's real life also, (well, almost), and in real life, people aren't always going to get along.

Here at APKC we all have different opinions and sometimes people fight. That happens all the time, you just have to try to over-look it, and if it really bothers you, have a quiet PM with that person that it, and if by any chance someone is harrassing you, tell a mod.

Threads like this are just not necessary.

[talim]

What Manatee, I am not. I am not the least bit mad at her. I accually for a first like her. Cara said she dosen't hate me, and was accually sorry to death. I didn't say anything mean about her. Right Cara? I told her I am the one who needs to be sorry. I am telling the truth so, thats that. I wasn't pointing fingers. I was just weirded out that she did that because I thought she wantted me to leave. She even had a dog named after me, she emailed it to me.

[Manatee]

I don't want to get into a big argument, but I must say, I do beleive that's a lie. A dog named after you? I can't possibly beleive that. Anyways, that's yours and Cara's buisness. But you really need to straighten yourself out.

edit: but doesn't Cara already have three dogs? I don't recal any of them being named Sierra *shrugs and walks away*

pish posh

lies again....