Post by ~*LeXi*~ on Jun 16, 2008 21:24:31 GMT
Ok well awhile back round just before x-mas, i started liking this guy. Im usally a very closed person and find it hard to open up to any one, always use to deny my feelings for anyone, so this was the first guy i liked so it was a shock.
Any way the guys a youth worker at my church youth group. He's 20 and im 18 so it isnt that bad, depends what your views are like, any ways this was just after my bf dumped me and messed me round, so at first i thought i was just re bounding and didnt take much notice of the crush, but as time went on and i got over my ex and left that in the past i still found my self liking this guy and it seem to grow more and more.
i usally go to my old secoundary school to help the church youth group with the club they run there, of course the guy i liked was there helping, at first i put alot of effort in to talk 2 him and get to know him, after that he would sometimes tease me, mess my hair up, push me etc, i knew it could be friendly and that all and could of been taking it the wrong way, some weeks he wouldnt do anything, we would barly talk.
I remember one day we were watchin a movie at my school and he stole my place and he would move when i asked so i sat down on his lap, well inbetween him and this guy in yr11, of course he was eating a sauage roll and chewing in my ear loadly perposly and kept laughing, one of the kids on the sofa said ill move in the minute and he just turned round and said dont worry, but in the end the other guy i was sat on got up and i got a space.
During the christmas hols he went snow boarding and after that i found out he got a gf so that was kind of depressing, things died down after that, he would sumtimes mess round like he use to but of course then i didnt know him really well.
Things went on with him sometimes messing round at times, but nothing major. when it hit valentines day i found out he was single. think he broke up with his gf over distance or something, i wasnt sure if it was official etc so i left it again but then as things went on etc i knew he was actually single again.
Things went on as usal, sometimes would push me or something, he went through a fase of putting his arm round me sometimes after a joke or trying to make me jump. that stopped after a few weeks, after that it was always messing up my hair.
I was thinking it was all friendly that it ment nothing, that he just saw me as a kid that went to the clubs etc cause he didnt always talked to me, sometimes barly at all. It was a weird on and off thing.
Just before my half term he didnt really mess my hair up or anything so i thought nah he dosent like me and tried to get over him, which is always proved harder said then done.
After the half term i didnt go to the clubs for 3 wks almost 4 and church 2wks during that cause of all my college work etc and helping at the farm. I wasnt to botherd about going either, i actually thought i was getting over him.
Then last friday i got a messge on face book from him asking if i was going to church sunday ( obviously because i havnt been in 2wks or been round in ages) I said yeah i am, why do you ask?
He said cause havnt seen you in ages. It did make me smile but i just kept thinking nah its like me asking a friend and saying that, but as i went to church and today i went to the clubs and he seemed to be talking to me alot now, like hes catching up, he mostly talked about kingdom hearts 2 because me and 2 others got him to buy it.
Today he sat next to me alot before going to play football with the clubs and also when they put on hannah montana which he didnt like of course. He kept teasing me saying i was enjoying it etc, he kept putting his hand on my head and messing it up a bit, i mean when he was sat there with his feet on my chair i swear he was looking at me but then he could of been looking at the kids playing games on the consoles that were slightly behind me, although i did have the courage once to look and he was looking at me but then he could of looked the same time i did.
I dont know what to think now. Im just thinking it could be friendly. Sometimes he would mess other kids hairs up etc.
It is complicated cause he a youth worker and i havnt spent time with him outside clubs.
Sorry for the extreamly long talk, just needed to vent everything, would tell you more but i need to get to bed. If anyones got any advice or thought please let me know.
Thanx
Any way the guys a youth worker at my church youth group. He's 20 and im 18 so it isnt that bad, depends what your views are like, any ways this was just after my bf dumped me and messed me round, so at first i thought i was just re bounding and didnt take much notice of the crush, but as time went on and i got over my ex and left that in the past i still found my self liking this guy and it seem to grow more and more.
i usally go to my old secoundary school to help the church youth group with the club they run there, of course the guy i liked was there helping, at first i put alot of effort in to talk 2 him and get to know him, after that he would sometimes tease me, mess my hair up, push me etc, i knew it could be friendly and that all and could of been taking it the wrong way, some weeks he wouldnt do anything, we would barly talk.
I remember one day we were watchin a movie at my school and he stole my place and he would move when i asked so i sat down on his lap, well inbetween him and this guy in yr11, of course he was eating a sauage roll and chewing in my ear loadly perposly and kept laughing, one of the kids on the sofa said ill move in the minute and he just turned round and said dont worry, but in the end the other guy i was sat on got up and i got a space.
During the christmas hols he went snow boarding and after that i found out he got a gf so that was kind of depressing, things died down after that, he would sumtimes mess round like he use to but of course then i didnt know him really well.
Things went on with him sometimes messing round at times, but nothing major. when it hit valentines day i found out he was single. think he broke up with his gf over distance or something, i wasnt sure if it was official etc so i left it again but then as things went on etc i knew he was actually single again.
Things went on as usal, sometimes would push me or something, he went through a fase of putting his arm round me sometimes after a joke or trying to make me jump. that stopped after a few weeks, after that it was always messing up my hair.
I was thinking it was all friendly that it ment nothing, that he just saw me as a kid that went to the clubs etc cause he didnt always talked to me, sometimes barly at all. It was a weird on and off thing.
Just before my half term he didnt really mess my hair up or anything so i thought nah he dosent like me and tried to get over him, which is always proved harder said then done.
After the half term i didnt go to the clubs for 3 wks almost 4 and church 2wks during that cause of all my college work etc and helping at the farm. I wasnt to botherd about going either, i actually thought i was getting over him.
Then last friday i got a messge on face book from him asking if i was going to church sunday ( obviously because i havnt been in 2wks or been round in ages) I said yeah i am, why do you ask?
He said cause havnt seen you in ages. It did make me smile but i just kept thinking nah its like me asking a friend and saying that, but as i went to church and today i went to the clubs and he seemed to be talking to me alot now, like hes catching up, he mostly talked about kingdom hearts 2 because me and 2 others got him to buy it.
Today he sat next to me alot before going to play football with the clubs and also when they put on hannah montana which he didnt like of course. He kept teasing me saying i was enjoying it etc, he kept putting his hand on my head and messing it up a bit, i mean when he was sat there with his feet on my chair i swear he was looking at me but then he could of been looking at the kids playing games on the consoles that were slightly behind me, although i did have the courage once to look and he was looking at me but then he could of looked the same time i did.
I dont know what to think now. Im just thinking it could be friendly. Sometimes he would mess other kids hairs up etc.
It is complicated cause he a youth worker and i havnt spent time with him outside clubs.
Sorry for the extreamly long talk, just needed to vent everything, would tell you more but i need to get to bed. If anyones got any advice or thought please let me know.
Thanx