Post by Rach on Jun 22, 2008 21:49:23 GMT
i've recently been in a relationship (for the past month) with this lovely guy. he's perfect, cute, lovely.
the thing is, theres a few problems and i really dont know what to do.
he's very insecure, he's very shy and sometimes its really awkward between us. he always blames it on a relationship he had 2 years ago that went horribly wrong and the fact he is insecure.
before we actually 'made it official' he was very weary about it, then one night he just came to my door about 11pm and told my mum he needed to talk to me, and asked me out, and said it was the first thing he's ever changed his mind about. he said he was 100% positive its what he wanted and it felt so right.
now, my friend who's noticed its going a bit odd, how we're awkward together talked to him. a few clips of the conversation;
i have no idea what to do, i dont know how i can help him or anything and i really dont want it to end.
any advice? ):
the thing is, theres a few problems and i really dont know what to do.
he's very insecure, he's very shy and sometimes its really awkward between us. he always blames it on a relationship he had 2 years ago that went horribly wrong and the fact he is insecure.
before we actually 'made it official' he was very weary about it, then one night he just came to my door about 11pm and told my mum he needed to talk to me, and asked me out, and said it was the first thing he's ever changed his mind about. he said he was 100% positive its what he wanted and it felt so right.
now, my friend who's noticed its going a bit odd, how we're awkward together talked to him. a few clips of the conversation;
Erin! says:
because rach likes you so much and she doesnt want to be left to start everything
Josh --- Rach says:
she hasn't started everything though
Erin! says:
yeh sorry i didnt mean it like that
Josh --- Rach says:
i dont know if i mean this or w/e not tell her.. but sometimes i feel like i just rushed into it
Josh --- Rach says:
dont*
Erin! says:
but you need to become kind of like best friends so you can completely trust each other
Josh --- Rach says:
yeah i know
Erin! says:
and the best way is talking tbh!
Josh --- Rach says:
i dont talk in general lol
Josh --- Rach says:
unless its like my best mates
Josh --- Rach says:
im not that kinda person
Josh --- Rach says:
like flirty ladies man
Josh --- Rach says:
more of the shy in the background guy
because rach likes you so much and she doesnt want to be left to start everything
Josh --- Rach says:
she hasn't started everything though
Erin! says:
yeh sorry i didnt mean it like that
Josh --- Rach says:
i dont know if i mean this or w/e not tell her.. but sometimes i feel like i just rushed into it
Josh --- Rach says:
dont*
Erin! says:
but you need to become kind of like best friends so you can completely trust each other
Josh --- Rach says:
yeah i know
Erin! says:
and the best way is talking tbh!
Josh --- Rach says:
i dont talk in general lol
Josh --- Rach says:
unless its like my best mates
Josh --- Rach says:
im not that kinda person
Josh --- Rach says:
like flirty ladies man
Josh --- Rach says:
more of the shy in the background guy
i have no idea what to do, i dont know how i can help him or anything and i really dont want it to end.
any advice? ):