Post by Tina on Jul 22, 2008 7:05:03 GMT
(I'm posting my main question first if your non-interested in anything else I have to say)
I guess my overall question is, like how do you become not afraid to talk to people?(in front of people)
Its a skill I greatly lack... and if I don't get over it, I know I won't get anywhere .___.
Like is there like a secret way to become brave?
Are there like any schools that force you to talk to people to make you more use to talking to people? (but in like not such a harsh way at first XD)
What would they be called?
Is it to late for someone who just graduated from high school?
Seriously, I'm pretty serious about it XD (Though I'm very bad at showing it, and sounding like I mean it to other people)
Would you happen to have any sites you'd recommend I ask this question? (This is too long to put on yahoo answers)
Well all my life, I have been the shy timid girl who's afraid to talk to strangers especially but pretty much everyone in general, even friends.
I guess I contridict myself though because I love to be around people, I'm afraid to be around people. (My mind is a pretty empty mind so I don't have things to say to others to begin with.... but when I do a lot of the time it comes blurted out all wrong, and said in non-logical order X___X)
Then my main problem is.... I would love to be a voice actor XD
And I was reading up on it, and there was something about "We hate to see a shy person come in and not be able to say their lines"
And that was something that is, well something I'll problbly do T___T
But like I can be in a room by myself, and I can shout phrases to myself, and I tell myself weird random things in a voice I wish I were comfortable talking in around others (But seriously the things I say to myself sound stupid, dumb, and have basically no point so I know everyone would find it obnoxious >__< I just wish I had bravery to talk in that non-shy tone, that I talk to with myself)
But I just don't get it... I could like talk into a mic and record something, and send it to someone with no problem, that they know its me.
If they wanted to come and listen to the same thing in person I'd be all timid about it and be afraid to try T____T
(I could record myself acting out something, and have so much fun showing it to people, beacuse I love seeing peoples reactions to things I've done espcially if they find it funny, but if they asked me to do it in person I'd freak out X___X)
It makes me so angry XD
Anyway, I love to do all different types of voices (Though I have a problem with holding onto certain voices for longer than a few words, but I would love to be able to improve on it) I don't know how to really explain this though XD
My regular voice is a very low voice, but its just fun to be able to talk in a higher pitched voice, and then try to match it with a character. But they're not like the types of voices that I would be comfortable talking with in everyday conversations. (But i like talking in a funny weird voice to)
Or maybe thats just stupid and considered 'just something that people do time to time' or I don't know, but I think it'd be the funnest career if I could actually do something like that in front of people, and be able to act out like an animated character (Espcially anime's that I like to watch that haven't been made into an english dubs yet XD)
I don't know I have a hard time explaining exactly how I feel and exactly what I mean, I just make it all sound very vague and meaninless T___T (I don't know how to explain it correctly v_________v)
And then the other half of the problem is freezing up in situations of me having to talk in front of 1 or more people. (And if I'm expecting that moment, I'll problbly be getting all sick to my stomach thinking about how scared I'll be)
I have to go out and get a job soon....and this whole interview process thing is like something that I am very scared of (I know I will freeze up, and start talking like a stupid mumbling mummy because I'm scared, it happen during our schools portfolio presentations, it was horrible for me)
I guess my overall question is, like how do you become not afraid to talk to people?(in front of people)
Its a skill I greatly lack... and if I don't get over it, I know I won't get anywhere .___.
Like is there like a secret way to become brave?
Are there like any schools that force you to talk to people to make you more use to talking to people? (but in like not such a harsh way at first XD)
What would they be called?
Is it to late for someone who just graduated from high school?
Seriously, I'm pretty serious about it XD (Though I'm very bad at showing it, and sounding like I mean it to other people)
Would you happen to have any sites you'd recommend I ask this question? (This is too long to put on yahoo answers)
Well all my life, I have been the shy timid girl who's afraid to talk to strangers especially but pretty much everyone in general, even friends.
I guess I contridict myself though because I love to be around people, I'm afraid to be around people. (My mind is a pretty empty mind so I don't have things to say to others to begin with.... but when I do a lot of the time it comes blurted out all wrong, and said in non-logical order X___X)
Then my main problem is.... I would love to be a voice actor XD
And I was reading up on it, and there was something about "We hate to see a shy person come in and not be able to say their lines"
And that was something that is, well something I'll problbly do T___T
But like I can be in a room by myself, and I can shout phrases to myself, and I tell myself weird random things in a voice I wish I were comfortable talking in around others (But seriously the things I say to myself sound stupid, dumb, and have basically no point so I know everyone would find it obnoxious >__< I just wish I had bravery to talk in that non-shy tone, that I talk to with myself)
But I just don't get it... I could like talk into a mic and record something, and send it to someone with no problem, that they know its me.
If they wanted to come and listen to the same thing in person I'd be all timid about it and be afraid to try T____T
(I could record myself acting out something, and have so much fun showing it to people, beacuse I love seeing peoples reactions to things I've done espcially if they find it funny, but if they asked me to do it in person I'd freak out X___X)
It makes me so angry XD
Anyway, I love to do all different types of voices (Though I have a problem with holding onto certain voices for longer than a few words, but I would love to be able to improve on it) I don't know how to really explain this though XD
My regular voice is a very low voice, but its just fun to be able to talk in a higher pitched voice, and then try to match it with a character. But they're not like the types of voices that I would be comfortable talking with in everyday conversations. (But i like talking in a funny weird voice to)
Or maybe thats just stupid and considered 'just something that people do time to time' or I don't know, but I think it'd be the funnest career if I could actually do something like that in front of people, and be able to act out like an animated character (Espcially anime's that I like to watch that haven't been made into an english dubs yet XD)
I don't know I have a hard time explaining exactly how I feel and exactly what I mean, I just make it all sound very vague and meaninless T___T (I don't know how to explain it correctly v_________v)
And then the other half of the problem is freezing up in situations of me having to talk in front of 1 or more people. (And if I'm expecting that moment, I'll problbly be getting all sick to my stomach thinking about how scared I'll be)
I have to go out and get a job soon....and this whole interview process thing is like something that I am very scared of (I know I will freeze up, and start talking like a stupid mumbling mummy because I'm scared, it happen during our schools portfolio presentations, it was horrible for me)